Safer changing rooms

Why children and young people may be at risk in changing rooms

Children and young people may be more at risk in changing rooms because:  

  • they may be undressed or showering, so are potentially vulnerable 

  • changing rooms and toilets are sometimes located away from other areas of buildings, venues or locations, and can be isolated 

  • there may be less adult supervision in these areas.  

This can make it easier for tamariki and rangatahi to be bullied or for people to intentionally harm them. It also means that children and young people can feel uncomfortable about using changing rooms. 

The guidance below provides advice on keeping children and young people safer in changing rooms. It’s also designed to keep the adults using these spaces safer too. 

Tamariki (children) and rangatahi (young person) means anyone under 18 years old.

If a child or young person feels uncomfortable using the changing rooms, let them know they don’t have to. Agree on other arrangements with them and their caregivers, such as changing and showering at home. 

Who is responsible for making changing rooms safer to use

Everyone is responsible for ensuring that changing rooms are safer to use. This includes: 

  • clubs and organisations that own or manage changing facilities 

  • staff, volunteers, parents, caregivers, whānau and ngā tangata/everyone attending, supervising and supporting activities for children and young people, at home and away 

  • the children and young people themselves. 

Supervising tamariki and rangatahi in changing rooms

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Overview

Staff, volunteers and other adults should not be in the changing room when children or young people are undressed or showering. The presence of adults in changing rooms can make some tamariki and rangatahi feel uncomfortable. This situation can also be unsafe for the adults. 

At the same time, adequate adult supervision is needed to ensure there aren’t opportunities for harmful behaviour.  

Adults supervising children and young people will need to find a balance between: 

  • being on hand to detect and prevent any harm  

  • ensuring that children and young people are safe  

  • ensure they have privacy when showering and changing.  

One approach is to remain close enough to the changing rooms to hear how things are going, and to prevent others from entering the facilities, without being in the changing area. 

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When supervision is needed

However, supervision may be needed in changing rooms if: 

  • children are too young to be left alone or change themselves  

  • the facilities have established policies or guidelines saying younger children must be accompanied  

  • the group includes disabled children who need additional support and assistance with changing (and you have permission to assist from caregivers, whānau and the tamariki and rangatahi themselves) 

  • children could injure themselves or access a potential risk, such as an unattended swimming pool 

  • you have concerns about managing bullying, fighting or other harmful behaviour 

  • there are concerns about photographs or videos being taken in changing rooms 

  • mixed use of the changing facility by adults and children is unavoidable 

  • changing rooms or toilets are open to the public. 

If it is necessary to supervise tamariki and rangatahi in changing rooms, ensure that:  

  • there are at least two staff or volunteers there at all times  

  • the adults supervising are the same gender as the children and young people using the facilities 

  • the adults supervising are vetted and approved for this duty. 

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Be vigilant around changing rooms

If you’re an adult responsible for supervising a group of tamariki or rangatahi, look out for their safety around changing rooms and bathrooms at all times. 

  • If a child or young person enters a changing room and they don’t return in a reasonable time, check if they are okay. Always take someone with you. 

  • If adults aren’t available to supervise and wait outside during a toilet visit, use a buddy system. This is where children can nominate two or more ‘buddies’ of a similar age and gender who can go with them.  

  • Perform random checks of out-of-the-way and out-of-sight locations, including corridors. However, always announce yourself loudly and wait for permission before entering changing rooms being used by tamariki and rangatahi. 

Read more guidance on background checks and training for people working with children and young people 

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Caregivers, parents and/or whānau and changing rooms

Do not accompany your child into changing rooms where other people’s children are changing unless:  

  • it’s a public facility where you’re visiting as a family, such as a swimming pool 

  • the child or young person needs help with dressing and showering for a specific reason, such as assisting younger children, or for children and young people with disabilities or injuries. 

If you’re a parent or caregiver and your child needs help in a changing room where a group of other people’s children are changing, you should:  

  • let one of the adults in charge of supervising the group know in advance that you need to accompany your child 

  • make sure there is at least one member of staff or volunteer is present with you when other children and/or young people are using the changing room.  

If you are not the same gender as the children and young people in the changing area, find a separate room or cubicle to use.  

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If you’re supervising tamariki and rangatahi while visiting or hiring a facility

If you’re visiting or hiring a facility and using their changing rooms, find out: 

  • who to contact if an issue arises about changing room layouts  

  • if the public will have access to the changing facilities and toilets at the same time  

  • other activities taking place that could impact on the use of changing facilities and toilets  

  • if any of the children and young people have special needs, for example, gender, medical conditions, or disabilities requiring special equipment.  

If members of the public will be using the toilets and changing rooms, make sure that there are approved adults available to supervise.  

If there are no changing facilities available at a location, tell children and young people, and their parents, caregivers or whānau, beforehand.

See related guidance on planning safer travel with tamariki and rangatahi 

Talking with children and young people about changing areas

Set clear rules and make sure everyone is on the same page. Let children and young people know what is and isn’t acceptable in changing rooms, including: 

  • their behaviour towards other people 

  • unacceptable behaviour from adults. 

Encourage children and young people to talk about their concerns. Let them know:  

  • they should tell an adult they trust if something happens that worries or concerns them 

  • what they can expect from the person they reach out to. 

As a club or organisation, consider asking the children and young people about the existing changing and bathroom facilities. Find out what makes them feel safe. Listen to their concerns and see if there is anything you can do to address these. You could use these to inform an organisational policy or guidelines. 

Guidance for clubs and organisations with existing facilities

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Overview

As a club or organsation, you can make sure that changing areas are safer places for tamariki and rangatahi, and for the adults supervising them. We recommend having a strong focus on prevention and awareness of child safeguarding practices in these environments.  

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Document and communicate expected behaviour around changing rooms

Discuss and agree on the expected behaviour for ngā tangata/everyone using your changing rooms. When you make decisions about this: 

  • consider documenting these in a policy, guidelines and code of conduct 

  • communicate these decisions to the members and visitors at your club or organisation, and let them know what’s expected from them. 

The guidance below applies mainly to existing changing facilities, but can also be used when planning to retrofit or build new facilities.   

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Ban the use of mobile phones in changing rooms and toilets

Children and young people are vulnerable when undressed, showering or dressing in changing rooms. Do not allow photography or video — including ‘selfies’ — in toilets, changing rooms or showers under any circumstances. 

When someone uses a mobile phone in a changing room, it’s difficult to tell if they are simply sending a text or using an app. They could be taking photos or videos for inappropriate reasons, such as online bullying or to share in a sexual context.  

To reduce the risk of people taking inappropriate images, ban the use of mobile phones, tablets and cameras in these areas. Make sure tamariki, rangatahi and their whānau, as well as all staff and volunteers, are aware of this rule. Provide clear communication, signage and posters.  

Find out more about the risks for children and young people when taking and sharing images  

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Consider the ages, gender mix, and vulnerabilities of children using these facilities

  • For mixed-gender activities, provide separate changing areas. 

  • If disabled children and young people need to use changing facilities, make sure they are accessible. The disabled child or young person and their parent, caregiver or whānau should decide if and how they should be assisted. 

  • If there aren’t suitable facilities, ask children and young people to arrive already dressed for the game or activity. 

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Providing safe changing rooms for rainbow children and young people

Changing rooms and showers can be particularly stressful places for rainbow tamariki and rangatahi. ‘Rainbow’ includes children and young people who identify themselves as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex and asexual (LGBTQIA+), takatāpui, or non-binary. 

Changing rooms can be common sites for gender and sexuality based bullying. These children and young people may also not feel comfortable in shared changing rooms, especially if they are asked to use changing rooms that don’t align with their gender identity. 

Think about how to support rainbow, takatāpui and non-binary children and young people in clubs and organisations. You may need to make decisions on a case-by-case basis, taking into consideration the safety and needs of all of the children and young people using the facility.  

Discuss options with the children and young people and their caregivers and whānau. Consider providing the option of a separate changing room or bathroom, if possible.  

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Building and refitting existing changing rooms

If you’re refitting, or building new facilities, include child safeguarding considerations into the design.  

You’ll need to: 

  • identify the potential risks and research how to mitigate them 

  • include effective natural surveillance with few out-of-the-way places 

  • think about installing surveillance equipment (for example, CCTV) in high-risk environments where natural surveillance is not feasible 

  • make sure you don’t compromise a child’s right to privacy when designing any surveillance 

  • decide if there will be areas used exclusively by children and young people. 

Keeping yourself safer as an adult

Responsible adults will want to keep children safe and will respect their boundaries. If you can understand and communicate appropriate boundaries to other people, this helps tamariki and rangatahi feel safer around you as an adult. It also keeps you safer, too. 

Follow the guidelines below to keep yourself safer as an adult. 

Never use changing facilities at the same time as children or young people if it can be avoided. Never undress, shower or bathe in front of children or young people. This also applies to staff and volunteers who are supervising. If there’s no other changing room available: 

  • wait until the children have finished and left the area  

  • use cubicles or separate changing and showering areas, if available.  

Never be alone and unsupervised with someone else’s child or young person in a changing room, even if your intentions are innocent. Keep yourself safe. 

Don’t isolate yourself with one child in a busy changing room (for example, taking them into a cubicle with you), unless they are your own children and they need help changing. 

If you’re an adult who needs to enter an area where tamariki or rangatahi are changing:  

  • always knock and announce loudly when you wish to enter — wait for permission before entering and give tamariki and rangatahi time to cover themselves 

  • don’t enter areas containing children and young people of the opposite gender 

  • always have at least one other adult with you.