Harmful behaviour affects everyone. You may feel bad about yourself or alone. But it can happen to anyone. And there are people who can help you.
People deserve to enjoy sport and recreation in a safe and healthy environment. And to enjoy the benefits of participating in and performing well in the things they love to do.
Everyone suffers when bullying, violence, abuse, intimidation or harassment happens.
It damages participants’ physical and mental wellbeing
Being on the receiving end of harmful behaviour can:
result in feelings of embarrassment, shame, fear
lead to a loss of self-esteem, confidence or mana
lead to depression, anxiety, risk-taking behaviour and self-harm
result in poorer performance, either through injury or loss of confidence.
You may:
become withdrawn, no longer want to join in or lose trust in the team and officials
drop out or leave the sport or activity
feel you’re not good enough.
Physical injuries stop a person performing well or to their full ability. They may not be able to continue the sport or recreation they have put time and effort into.
It affects family, friends and whānau
It’s not only the person being targeted; harmful behaviour also affects those close to them.
It is distressing to find out a loved one is experiencing harmful behaviour. You may feel powerless or guilty you didn’t pick it up earlier.
It is worrying and upsetting if a loved one goes from being confident to withdrawn and quiet, and you’re not sure why. It is difficult if they won’t talk about it.
The person may show signs of extreme behaviour. For instance, having outbursts, being overly demanding, or aggressive.
Organisations and clubs can lose out
Clubs and organisations may lose:
members and volunteers if people feel they haven’t been treated fairly
new members who are thinking of joining a team
public confidence and their reputation as a trusted and safe place to be
funding and sponsorship opportunities.